Stairway To Heaven

Tag: mindset

  • Grief, Sorrow, Sadness, Anguish, Distress, Trouble, Irritation, Annoyance

    Grief, Sorrow, Sadness, Anguish, Distress, Trouble, Irritation, Annoyance

    In any thought or event do these words serve you?

    Does your belief system in grief, sorrow, sadness, anguish, distress, trouble, irritation, and annoyance make the experience the way you want to experience it? Your definition of the event is generated by feelings. Again, does it serve you?

    Your definition of an event is by way of your emotions in determining whether or not a situation is difficult, or have some kind of personal affect upon oneself, or for it to seem so. The training of humankind is responsible, and you have to un-train yourself to make it “your own” in accordance to how it “serves you.”

    Can you have a belief that you can train yourself to experience something differently?

    Feelings and emotions are generated by belief. You can’t have that feeling if you don’t have that belief. If you have a different belief, you have a different feeling.

    Why are you holding on to that belief? Does it serve you to believe that this is a difficult thing to do? If it doesn’t, why are you choosing it to do so? Is your belief out of alignment in who you prefer to be?

    All beliefs are designed to reinforce themselves. They have to perpetuate themselves. That’s in the design of life or you wouldn’t be having a physical experience, because physical reality is an illusion.

    So its the beliefs in the physical mind that make physical reality seem real and solid because belief systems reinforce themselves with emotions, thought patterns, and behaviors to make physical reality seem real.

    When you change the belief, you change the feelings, you change the thoughts, you change the behaviors and you change the experience. That’s the order in which it happens.

    So any time your having an experience you don’t prefer, it can be traced all the way back to a belief that your holding on to for some reason that you think is important to hold on to.

    Find out why you believe its important to hold on to it and then you will see it doesn’t make sense, and its not really necessary. Then you can let it go because as soon as a belief system doesn’t make sense, its gone, you’ve dropped it because you don’t hold on to things that don’t make sense.

    If you hold on to a belief that doesn’t work for you, that can only mean there is some belief within you that’s making it make sense, or making it seem like the better alternative. You always move towards what you believe benefits you. You always without fail move away from what you don’t believe benefits you. So if your are holding on to something that doesn’t feel right, that feels like a struggle, that feels like difficulty, if your holding on to it, that can only mean your have a belief that says the alternative is worse and be more painful, more difficult.

    MJI (LightWorker)

  • Positive Or Negative?

    Positive Or Negative

    Stressful Situations

    How to handle stressful situations where the outcome is of such great importance.

    The First step would be to understand that even though it may seem you have no control over the situation, you always have control over your “state of being”, no matter what is going on. It’s not about what happens, it’s about how you process it in your mind. That’s the main principle. Staying in a state of being that the incident is handled from a positive state or at the very least, a neutral state.

    To direct your attention to specifically what can be done and specifically what actions can be taken. But the only way you’re going to receive that information is by at the very least remaining in a neutral state. If not fully a positive state, knowing that you will be given the information, you need to move forward in a constructive and positive way to learn the lessons that need to be learned and allow for a more positive and constructive outcome for all concerned.

    You have to learn the lessons involved. You have to understand that it may be something that’s part of your life. A path to bring you a lesson. You need to learn how to deal with these things in a way that can be more constructive than what you’re afraid of.


    Get in touch with your true belief system as to why you would choose to go into a state of mind that you don’t prefer? The idea is, if you understand how things work, you will know that if you truly desire some kind of a positive outcome, staying in the neutral or positive state is going to give you the best opportunity to do that.

    Choosing to go into a fear-based state will not. Therefore, why would you choose it? If the outcome is so dire, if the need for the outcome, being positive is so important, why would you choose to go into a state that reduces the probability of having a positive outcome?

    Stay in an energetic state that increases the probability of a positive outcome with an understanding that you create your reality. Your life path choices are all about in terms of how it helps you learn and grow, and you have to understand how it works. And when you understand how it works, there is no other choice but to stay in that positive state.
    Come at it from a positive and constructive point of view knowing what is possible, knowing what is probable knowing? What could be more beneficial? Engage in a positive way. It’s not inherently negative to discuss things that themselves might be negative if you approach it from the idea of how it can make it a positive and be more beneficial for all.

    Again, it’s not about what happens. It’s about what you do with what happens, that makes the difference. So it’s not about the idea that you’re discussing things that might inherently have been created negatively that pulls you into negativity, or reinforces the negativity. It depends on how you approach it.

    MJI (LightWorker)